"RED"
UCLA Medical Center was a big, scary place to an 11-year-old who was
away from home for the first time. The sounds and smells seemed foreign
as white shoes squeaked on the highly polished floors, people were being
paged over an intercom, buzzers could be heard, and the faint odor of
alcohol seemed everywhere.
In the bed next to me, and closest to the window, was a young girl
about my age. The first thing I noticed about her were her beautiful
eyes and bright smile. I wondered how she could seem so happy in this
strange place. She had gone through the glass of a sliding door and had
bandages covering the stitches. I knew she had to be in some pain, but
she was friendly and a welcome companion.
It was the late 1950's and a tumor had been discovered in the bone
marrow of my right ankle.
My foot was discolored and swollen to the point of not having anything
that even resembled an ankle. I went through a battery of tests, and
during that time my roommate and companion was released to go home.
Without her to take my mind off my fears, I became quiet and retreated
into books or watching television.
One afternoon, a few days later, a rather frail looking, freckle
faced, red haired boy peeked in to say "Hi!" He hopped on the empty
bed
near the window and began to chat like we were old friends. He talked
about places he wanted to visit, favorite games, television shows, and
how sick he was.
His eyes sparkled, and other than being very pale, he didn't seem sick
to me. He loved to do small skits and kept those of us in the children's
ward laughing.
His father would come to visit us, too. He was a taller, older,
broader version of my friend Richard, and just as funny.
He had a kindness about him that made you feel warm and comfortable
around him. We all enjoyed his visits and the humor and laughter he
brought with him.
The day came when I was told surgery was necessary. The doctor was as
gentle as he could be when he told me there was a good chance I had
something that would mean amputating my leg. I remember crying for hours
that night.
The night before surgery I was very scared. My mother was at home
with three small children and I had a difficult time falling asleep.
When I finally gave in and allowed sleep to take over, it wasn't for
long.
I awoke to find my friend Richard's father asleep in the chair next to
my bed. He woke up soon after I did, and in a very gentle voice kept
telling me
it was going to be "OK." I just had to believe.
He stayed for most of the night.
I would sleep and waken, and he would sometimes be asleep, other times
he'd smile and comfort me.
Surgery went well, and my leg wasn't amputated, but I was in and out
of surgeries, casts, and the hospital for the next two years.
Richard passed away from leukemia the second year, but has lived on in
my heart and memory.
His father became my hero, then and in later years. For during the
time I knew Mr. Skelton, and his son Richard, I only saw their courage,
compassion, and tender hearts.
I saw a man who was "in character" to make the children laugh and
forget their illnesses, but I also saw a very gentle man who was not in
character as he sat by the bed of a fatherless 11-year-old girl.
Setting aside his own fears or sadness, "Red" Skelton, the clown
who entertained millions during the early days of television, made sure
that I was able to face a scary situation with the hope it was going to
be OK.
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